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Discussion in 'ZeldaCraft' started by Tenshi, Oct 21, 2020.

  1. Tenshi

    Tenshi King of Hyrule

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    I left this community with my friends, I would appreciate it that players don't try to contact me to ask me for my homes, my friends homes, or our items on a server that I'm banned from.

    Especially after I said no 3 times.

    So please, To anyone who still wants to get into contact with me and make jokes about my toxicity; It's getting very annoying. You are all adults, act like it.

    When someone tells you no, Do not try to gaslight them or manipulate them into feeling bad for you saying no.

    Thank you :)
    - Tenshi
     
    Last edited: Oct 21, 2020
  2. brassow2007

    brassow2007 The Edge Lord

    This should have been common sense I would have thought, but yes. Believe it or not, if I were to tell Mergu that no he can’t go into my house and take my 3x3 monkey mapart (even if I were banned) Mergu still should not take my 3x3 monkey mapart. As for the gaslighting, I’d imagine that’d be pretty annoying. Also mentioning yourself as an “up-and-coming” player is kind of stupid, he’s been here for years. As for making jokes about your toxicity, Tenshi’s right on this one. I’ve seen a whole load of this shit recently, where players have been making fun of other players, specifically DarkLinkArisen, You, Tenshi, and a lot of the newer young players, such as CallMeCheese, PunishmentBox, and also GrayyPsi. Guys. Cut the shit out. In regards to DLA, the staff team was willing to forgive him, so why can’t we, it’s pretty clear that he’s changed for the better so we can treat him like it. I don’t want to see any more of the hate on anyone for stupid reasons like “he stole my cookie 3 years ago”. As for Tenshi, I myself hold a grudge a little bit with Tenshi, but that is no fault of her own really, we just haven’t had a way to prove to each other that we’ve changed. However, messaging Tenshi telling her she’s toxic and that she shouldn’t ever come back is... can you guess? It’s exactly what we aren’t looking for a player, and ironically enough it’s exactly what you’re making fun of her for being. It’s toxic. Ok. Cheese, and Box, just cause they’re young, doesn’t mean they can’t be a decent part of the community. I’ve come across no huge problems with cheese and box, a few minor things but nothing I’m gonna talk behind their back about and nothing you should talk behind their back about either. I’m not exactly guilt-free of this but I do want it to change. And GrayPsi. Sure he posts unfunny memes, but he has good intentions and hasn’t done anything wrong. I saw him comforting box and giving him advice just the other day, there’s no real reason to seriously make fun of him. That being said, I’ll try and come back to the main topic of reaching out to banned players and asking for their stuff. When someone says no, that means no. So, let’s say I’ve been permed. Have been for, 2 years or so and my appeals have been rejected. Mergu asks for the 3x3 monkey mapart in the flex house. I tell him, “no Mergu you can’t have the 3x3 monkey mapart in the flex house.” It ends there. Mergu doesn’t get the 3x3 monkey mapart because it’s not his, and I did not give him permission. It doesn’t matter if I’m banned or the most active player on zeldacraft. If I tell you no, I expect you to honor that no, and not try to guilt me into a yes. Let’s go back to the Mergu monkey mapart example. If I say “no Mergu, you cannot have my 3x3 monkey mapart.” And Mergu goes ahead and promptly takes my 3x3 monkey mapart anyway, I’m gonna be pretty pissed off, and Mergu is gonna get punished for it. Griefing, ladies and gentlemen, is taking something that isn’t yours without permission from the respective owner. If I am banned, it doesn’t affect that. If I log off the server, and am not there, it does not affect that rule. Do. Not. Grief. Pretty simple. Anyway I droned on there quite a while but both of those are important topics that needed to be addressed, thank you Tenshi for bringing it up.
     
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  3. brassow2007

    brassow2007 The Edge Lord

    Will bring this up with staff soon.
     
  4. Tenshi

    Tenshi King of Hyrule

    Thank you. I know I also made a player report but it is very tiring and childish to still go onto *other websites* to harass a user who last talked to you years ago. I didn't even remember who Ravens was until I finally went onto the forums- and I wasn't going to until he attacked me for saying no :)

    Nobody deserves to go through some of the stuff I put people through and nobody deserves to go through what some of the players here still make me go through every single day :D
     
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  5. brassow2007

    brassow2007 The Edge Lord

    While you did cause quite a few problems while you were on the server, you don’t deserve to be harassed for 2 years after it’s happened. It’s ridiculous. You aren’t sticking around bullying people on the forums, discord, etc. so there’s not much reason to come after you other than “haha funny tenshi bad” which is a whole load of bullshit, and not a great reason to come after people and make fun of them.
     
  6. Mergu

    Mergu Drowning Staff Member

    You shouldn't have been contacted. I'd prefer nobody reach out to you. Ideally this should go into your report instead of a separate thread so it's all in 1 place.
     
  7. brassow2007

    brassow2007 The Edge Lord

    I think the point she was trying to make on this is that she doesn’t want to be contacted to be harassed, which doesn’t really belong in the report section but you might be right.
     
  8. mrwobblers

    mrwobblers Hylian Knight

    lol
    cowlio moment
     
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  9. Tenshi

    Tenshi King of Hyrule

    Yeah it should have gone into my report. Wobbly also tried to friend me to talk to me at the same time Ravens did but I didn't know they were connected; I've gone no-contact with everyone and it's sad when people hunt me down on other servers too, My apologies.
     
  10. brassow2007

    brassow2007 The Edge Lord

    If you ever do decide you want to talk about anything at all, my discord is Edgelord#7510 :) I know you said no contact but I think it’d be nice just to chat maybe. Up to you, I’ll leave my discord.
     

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